I’d first like to thank Ruined-Julie for contributing this post. Full disclosure, Kevin and I tried the ruined orgasm and it didn’t work well for us. Julie’s writing certainly makes me want to give it another try. I did some quick editing but not too
In my previous blog about antisocial distancing, I talked about physical touch and separated it from sex. In this one I will do just the opposite. What about when touching your sexy bits isn’t about sex at all. I started researching tantra and massage shortly
Physical touch is very important to many of us and it seems that our society does our best to eliminate touch at every turn. Have you ever heard the term “I’m a hugger”? This typically means that the self admitted hugger knows that he or
My last couple blogs have turned into erotic novels and while that isn’t the typical content of the site, I really enjoyed reminiscing about the experience and writing it. Based on the positive feedback, perhaps I’ve missed my calling as an erotic novel author. Who
In my previous blog, I talked about meeting Andrew and the game of table tennis that led to an exciting friendship. If you haven’t read that blog, I highly recommend that you start there. It was roughly three days after first meeting Andrew when Kevin
I’ve hesitated to post this too quickly but knew I would post it sooner or later since typing my thoughts tends to give me a sort of mental clarity. I love all of you and really enjoy running this blog but I selfishly gain a
He probably does want to be locked! Once he grows accustomed to the feel of the cage and managing his releases, many men grow to feel more comfortable when caged. In a previous blog I mentioned that most men are hard wired to want to
Let’s talk about motivation. A typical man’s sexual energy is very closely linked to his desire to please you. That may seem odd but men in fact are hard wired to derive pleasure when you are happy and content. When there is conflict or unrest,
I admit it. Penises fascinate me. I wouldn’t say that most penises are incredibly attractive (sorry guys) but they are shaped to be very practical. Their sizes and shapes are perfect for their designed purpose. I don’t typically get instantly aroused when I see a
For those of you who have been around a while, you know that I’m never one to be afraid of feeding the trolls. Something about the the site or my experiences with Kevin must trigger people. In any case, I received the comment below and