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Thursday, May 22, 2025

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The Fox & The Stag

A fox hotwife is any woman that has occasional sex with other men with the encouragement and full consent of her straight heterosexual husband or boyfriend. Her husband or...

Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity

Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis, you need to ask yourself...

The Femdom Handjob: Pleasure and punishment

First off what is a femdom handjob? The definition is incredibly broad, a femdom handjob is any type of handjob where the female is dominant. That is an incredibly...

Quit busting my balls; Everything you ever wanted to know about CBT

This site typically doesn't dive into extreme bdsm by any means but today I will. Why? Because I am fascinated by it. It all started one day when I...

Erotic Fiction: The Cuck’s Blow-Up Doll, Annabelle

I'd like to thank Emily Strauss for contributing this work of erotic fiction. Emily is a friend of Evolving Your Man and was inspired to write this by the...

My Cuckold Relationship: Why I choose him over you

As I lay with my husband like I have so many times before, he pushed himself into me but this time was different. This time I didn't want that...

Sex Hack: The Relationship Sexual Cycle Explained

After my previous blog entitled "My Husband is in the Friendzone" I received an outpouring of responses via Twitter and email - both negative and positive. A quick reminder...

Ask Emma: My husband is in the friendzone. Is it possible that our marriage has just run its course?

Hi Emma. Can you please use a fake name for this? I'll go by Jessica if that is just the same to you. I've been married for 9 years...

LoopLok: What Does a Lock on a Beltloop Mean?

Have you see people walking around town with locks on their beltloop? Have you wondered just what in tarnation those are about? Look no further, we will unfold the...

Why Would I Want to Feminize My Husband?

I've always been opposed to feminization. I am female; a strong and empowered female who knows what she wants. My husband is male; a strong and subservient male that...

Audio Porn: Delight Yourself With Sounds and Words

A hot delivery boy shows up with a pizza, but the poor woman doesn’t have enough cash to pay for it. The pizza is cast aside, and the terms...

Post-Nut Humiliation: The Perfect Time to Play with Emotions

Post nut clarity is time when sexual arousal decreases after an orgasm. That clear feeling after he lets loose of his juice and he is in a temporary psychological...

Ten Ways to Practice Female Led Relationships Outside of the Bedroom

On this glorious site we go over female led relationships (FLR) and the focus is in the bedroom but what about the other 95% of the time when we...

Identify The Motivations behind your Non-Monogamy

Non-monogamy, also known as consensual non-monogamy or ethical non-monogamy, refers to the practice of having multiple simultaneous sexual or romantic relationships with the knowledge and consent of all involved...

SDH: The Joys of Sex Doll & Fleshlight Humiliation

Using a sex doll in the bedroom is typically considered a thing to do in the absence of a partner but what about including a sex doll with your...

Humiliation: SPH as a Relationship Dynamic

Humiliation is deeply arousing for men. I'll be honest, I don't really get it. If he told me that his ex had bigger tits than me (she did), I'd...

Ask Emma: Can Cuckolding Cause Erectile Dysfunction?

Hi Emma, My husband and I are new to cuckolding and we truly find enjoyment in the fantasy but I think it may cause some anxiety in his mind...

QIUI Key Pod Giveaway – Win a Key Pod!

A few years ago I gave away a Cell Mate remote chastity device and the amazing folks at lockthecock.com have graciously offered to sponsor another giveaway for not just...

My Wife Dates: The Case for the Halfway Open Marriage

Interpersonal relationships are complex and many of us will agree that marriage is an outdated construct. That doesn't have to mean that partnering with another individual with the intention...

Male Chastity Day 2023

Male chastity. A topic I absolutely adore. Why do I love male chastity so much? Let me count the ways! The male orgasm is wonderful and I love experiencing this...

Ask Emma – Should I let a man other than my husband get me pregnant?

Emma, Thank you so much for running this website. It gives us some great information on this lifestyle. Learning about this lifestyle is not always easy since there is...

What is a cuck good for anyway?

Your dick is not big enough to fully satisfy me sexually. I attract younger and more fit men, why would I settle for one man? How do those words...

Ask Emma: Reclaiming after my boyfriend visits.

I (F38) am married to my husband (M40) and have a boyfriend (M33) who comes over and visits a few times a month. He (boyfriend) is in an open...

The Sex & Psychology Podcast: Dr. Justin Lehmiller

I've got a few blogs that I am in the middle of writing but I've been meaning to post about the Sex and Psychology Podcast for some time. This...

Only Emotional Safety Allows True Sexual Freedom

My wheels are turning, three blogs in three consecutive days? Who am I? I think my mind is just incredibly fueled by the wonderful comments and dialog that my...
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