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Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective
This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just fine as a standalone blog,...
Ask Emma: How can I stop feeling guilty about taking control?
Emma, First off, thank you for maintaining such a great website. Your articles have been pivotal in feeling more comfortable about my wife and I's desires. I'm reaching out...
Male Chastity: The lock and key are important symbols of our relationship. ?
Some couples have a song, perhaps the song that they danced to at their wedding. Some couples have a place such as their honeymoon location or another place that...
Male Chastity: Want me to unlock you? Convince me!
This is one that works especially well for the husbands that aren't great about opening up about their fantasies and their feelings. It works by getting them out of...
Orgasm Denial: A step by step guide to add structure to his ejaculations.
In my previous blog, we discussed orgasms and how controlling male orgasms can be integral to the satisfaction potential of your relationship. I'll do my best to make this...
Orgasm Denial: Controlling access to what he believes he is entitled to.
Let's first outline what denial is and why men find it exciting. Denial is the practice of refraining from sexual experiences or excitement. Pretty simple right? Denial is not...
Ask Emma: Vacation Cuckold Experience That I Don’t Know How To Feel About
Hi Emma, Thank you so much for your articles, I can relate to so much of what you write. My name is Tanya (not my real name) I am...
Mistress Emma: No ball gags, whips or patent leather costumes in my closet.
I am not a dominatrix. I am not a mistress. I don't believe in female supremacy. I don't think women should rule the world. I don't even think that...
What Evolving Your Man is and what it isn’t.
This site has been around in one form or another for five years. Five years. That is an eternity in internet years but not really that long in terms...
It is almost time for SPH September! #sphseptember
It is common knowledge that many kinks are born of insecurities, the incredible human brain sexualizes potentially hurtful things and makes us embrace them. Weird and counterintuitive but it...
What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship for women?
Recent convert here so I feel like I am uniquely positioned to talk about this topic. If you read my previous blogs, you will know that I've been mostly...
Sex with my husband is not sex at all
Kev and I are newlyweds, we got hitched just two short months ago. While he and I are in our honeymoon period on paper, we've been together for years....
Inferiority Fetish: Getting off on feeling not good enough
I was thinking in the shower as I often do and I thought to myself; self, many of these fetishes that Kev and I enjoy dance around the bigger...
FLR101: A New Plateau
We've started his new 6 week schedule, and he's past the two week mark. I wasn't really expecting much at this stage. Maybe it's the fact that his E-day...
FLR101: Sarah’s Experience – Chapter 4 “Success!!!”
Sorry for delay in my posting but some things came up in the family which distracted me (nothing too serious fortunately).
Well I guess everyones big question is – did...
Love vs Lust: We’ve evolved to be horrible with long term relationships
Why are sexual needs so difficult for us to talk about? If you are hungry, you talk about how to satiate your hunger. If you are bored, you talk...
FLR101 – Sarah’s Experience: Chapter 3 “Four Days In”
We are having fun with this so far, as it has greatly enhanced our sex life even with just this short run so far. The desired goal is to...
FLR101 – Sarah’s Experience: Chapter 2 “A Nervous Night”
Hi, Its just me Sarah with an update – sorry this will be a bit long but I think I need to get this all out …
I rolled...
Is penis size inversely linked to intelligence?
No. I looked through numerous studies and I could not find a single one that linked penis size to IQ with anything statistically meaningful. There was lots of racist...
FLR101 – Sarah’s Experience: Chapter 1 “Feeling the relationship could be more”
Sarah is a reader that responded in the comments section of my blog. I didn't want her story to get buried in the comments section so I'm breaking her...
Why do some men find humiliation and female dominance irresistible?
All men are not alike just as all women are not alike. Many women find a dominant male attractive, let's unpack the reasons. We are all wired to appreciate...
FLR101 – Reader Letter: Wife is very pleased
"Writing at my wife's request who recently found your blog. She's so pleased by the benefits of this that she wonders why allow any ejaculation, ever? Two weeks in...
FLR101 – Concerns about the safety of Jade Eggs
It's come to my attention that it may not be advisable to insert Jade Eggs inside the vagina. It's been my understanding that these eggs have been used by...
Unpopular Opinion: You shouldn’t have to say size doesn’t matter to spare his feelings
Does size matter to some? Absolutely! As I've explored on my blog, a small penis is wonderful for emotional lovemaking but a larger penis is just what the doctor...
FLR101 – Preparing your yoni to receive the retaining male’s lingam
It's important in my opinion that when you have your man retaining and he is preserving his Jing and building Chi that I prepare myself to receive that special...