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What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM
For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude. Arguably the most famous blog...
Accept and embrace your role as his sexual supply!
In this sixteen part series over the next five weeks, we will explore how we can use our bodies and our sexuality with a partner with whom we've completely...
I love my husband but our sex life is boring. What can we do?
Sex is an incredible way to enhance the connection between two people but what happens when sex becomes boring or even mundane? Sex turns up the magic between two...
Let’s get real about blue balls!
We've all heard of blue balls. You know, that medical condition men complain about when they get aroused but don't ejaculate. I was accused of being a tease back...
You aren’t meeting my sexual needs!
In a monogamous relationship, society expects our needs to be completely met by our partner without exception. Stress, age and health concerns can throw our sexual desire from one...
Locked up for health & fitness with Miss Fit!
I'd like to introduce everyone to Miss Fit, who has a virtual fitness program that uses chastity to help achieve fitness results. As you may recall, Kev and I...
My husband is a pervert! Is it my fault?
It is no secret that about 80% of male chastity is initiated by the male and in this blog I provide context and encourage men to communicate about the...
Male Chastity Beauty Contest
If you are like me, you love the look of a neatly caged specimen and adore the lines of a nicely fitted cage. The confidence that it inspires for...
What does sex mean to men?
When men think about sex a lot, we assume it has something to do with testosterone. But men’s urgency about sex is not always about physical desire only. Sex can...
Three ways to tell if he can handle his cuckold fantasy
Your fella confessed that he has a fantasy of watching you with another man. That is a pretty big leap for even the most secure relationship. While many of...
10 Ways Men Can Feel Sexy
In our culture, the female form embodies sexy and men are not permitted the luxury of feeling sexy. Did you know that only 12.1 percent of men between the...
Locktober For Dummies: A Step By Step Guide
Locktober is a fun and sexy challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship and dabble into the world of male chastity. Locktober...
Don’t want to have sex? Lock him up!
You knew what he was going to ask before he asked it. His body language said it all. He says something awkward like "hey baby, want to get jiggy...
I got a new job. Go me!
I am just taking a moment to brag here so forgive me for diving into the spotlight for a moment. I rushed home from a job interview to write...
Behind The Scenes: Always getting better
It is insane to think that this site has been around for nearly three years in one form or another. I started reading the now defunct FLR 101 blog...
Playful & Silly: The key to a lasting and loving relationship!
I was at a local coffee shop and saw the cutest old couple sipping their coffee and staring lovingly into each other's eyes. As I sat with my coffee...
How can I be a good husband to my wife?
The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to...
The Locktober 2021 Challenge – Let’s fight testicular cancer together!
We are well into September and that means we need to start making preparations for Locktober festivities. For those new to the annual ritual, this is the month to...
Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?
This won't be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and...
Is your marriage symbiotic or parasitic?
The world around us is full of mutually beneficial symbiotic relationships! Think of the bee and the flower, barnacles on whales the list goes on and on. Now think...
Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!
There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men...
Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!
It is no secret that marriages are difficult. In fact; up to 63% of marriages end in divorce according to a recent statistic. That statistic was before the pandemic...
What can sperm competition bring to your marriage?
In and of itself, the human mating process is a very simple thing. Boy puts his thing inside girls thing until one or both of their bodies climax. Our...
Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?
Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely....
Quit feeling guilty about sex!
For women it seems like sex and guilt go hand in hand. If we sleep with him too soon, we feel guilty. If we sleep with too many guys,...