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Monday, May 19, 2025

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The Sexually Frustrated Man

Aren't they all? Seriously though. This guy has an unrealistic expectation of sex in this relationship. He may have gotten into a relationship expecting that he would have daily...

Was it good for you?

We are obviously a sex-positive blog and I found this infographic to be very interesting. I haven't fact checked all of the points and it doesn't really have sources...

Male Chastity: Motivating his weight loss

Looking good for your partner is an important thing for every relationship. Sometimes you feel like your partner may need a bit of work to motivate him to get...

Pegging For Beginners

Pegging is new, pegging is exciting, pegging is scary. Read my previous blog about how pegging feels to a woman. In his newly discovered and highly emotionally aware state, he...

Back In The Saddle

We tried the honor system. We tried it, didn't have any slip-ups and it worked but it wasn't as fun for either of us. Kevin got his weekly release...

Starting Out – Part 4

This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it. As we left...

Male Chastity: The Joys of Teasing Him

I've never been an overly extroverted person, in fact I really have to make an effort to be outgoing in social situations. Relationships are much of the same. When...

Male Chastity: The Three Day Itch

Kevin was good last week, Sunday came around and he got his weekly release. I decided not to lock him up this week. We don't do that every week,...

Relationships: How should you feel about porn?

How do I feel about porn? I don't have a problem with porn. In fact I enjoy watching porn. I don't feel like it is demeaning to women. I don't...

What Kind of Man

What kind of man allows a woman to lock up his penis? Why on earth would he subject himself to this sort of treatment? This kind of humiliation? Emasculation?...

Starting Out – Part 3

This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it. So we left...

EvolvingYourMan.com

So you made it to the new site, thanks for coming along for the ride. What do you think? If you've linked or bookmarked the old one, please update...

Starting Out – Part 2

This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it. In the previous post,...

Its Not All Fun and Games

Its not all fun and games. But sometimes it is. Some Fun Games To Play This can be tough for the male but here are some games to make the teasing...

Delayed Ejaculation

This post is about understanding and treating ejaculatory disability/retarded ejaculation by conditioning the penis and male body to regain the ability to orgasm through sexual intercourse and oral stimulation....

Starting Out – Part 1

I've received messages from other ladies asking how I can come into a relationship and "demand" that the guy be accepting of orgasm control. I'd like to set the...

What Kind of Man: The Boss

It seems that quite a few guys that have commented and messaged me are not submissive men by any stretch of the word. These men are sensible men with...

N̶e̶w̶ ̶S̶it̶e̶ Not Yet

TL;DR;So after reading all of your comments and realizing what I've actually enjoyed about this blog, I've decided to keep things as-is for now. The thing I've really enjoyed with...

Reader Letter: Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101)

This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her. "Hi...

New Site, Who Dis?

Alright so my friend Andrea (not her real name) and I spent the last week or so and most of the day today working on the idea and programming...

Sharing the Magic

Hi everyone, first post of 2019! I had a request to write about one of the times that I shared my favorite relationship secret with one of my friends....

The Future

Over the course of the last few months I've been telling my girlfriends about the benefits of chastity (much to the dismay of their boyfriends/husbands). One of my best...

26 Reasons to ? the ? in your modern marriage.

A bunch of reasons in no particular order. I'll probably add to them over time as the benefits keep rolling in. Feel free to add your own in the...

Ejaculation Frequency

So how often should he be allowed to cum? Traditional Chinese medicine teaches the following: “A man may attain health and longevity if he practices an ejaculation frequency of twice monthly...

To Eat His Own

Those of you that have been following along have seen that I am genuinely not interested in the fetish side of things. I am really just looking to use...
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