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Oral Pleasures
Like most of you, I enjoy oral sex. I mean, I really enjoy oral sex. Not just receiving but also giving. There are so many nuances to oral sex...
Then There Were Three
I've hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let...
Sexual Contingent Self-Worth
People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If...
Moving In
For those of you that haven't been following the blog religiously for the last few months, I'll catch you up to speed on the recent developments in my life....
An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?
Can you imagine walking into a relationship counselor for couples counseling. Let me set the scene; a strip-mall office, some counseling degrees hanging on the wall, fake ficus trees,...
Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes
Due to the popularity of my post about pegging becoming more mainstream in movies and television, I decided to do a post about pegging comedy. Pegging in itself can...
Sexuality Has No Relation to Gender
He is gay so he likes penis. She is gay so she likes vagina. They are bi so they like both. Then you throw a throw in trans and...
Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful
The medical term for painful intercourse is dyspareunia (dis-puh-ROO-nee-uh), defined as persistent or recurrent genital pain that occurs just before, during or after intercourse. There can be many causes...
Pegging Goes Mainstream
As anal sex becomes more universally accepted and mainstream, pegging does too. Let's take a look at the appearances that pegging has made on the big screen.
I think...
Caitlin V: Sex Coach
One of our readers sent me information about a sex coach named Caitlin V. She is animated, fun, sex positive, easy to understand and her videos are excellent!
I've...
Pegging Frequency
We discuss pegging quite frequently on this site and it seems that most of you are strong advocates of the practice in your relationship. Some couples tried pegging a...
Locktober: Keys Are Sexy
Remember ladies, it is almost Locktober. Time to lock your boy up!
-Me
How does something as simple as a key become sexy? We use various keys to get into our...
Sacrifices in Female Led Partnerships
So he put his willy in a little metal thing for a few days. Big deal. At the beginning of our journey, I didn't really understand how big of...
What Does Chastity Have To Do With Gender?
Here's an email exchange with a reader over the last couple days:
Reader- We have a somewhat female led relationship and my husband wears a chastity cage regularly, we do...
Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?
In my relationship, male chastity is a godsend and I preach the benefits from the highest mountaintop. We use it as a tool to keep our relationship exciting, fun,...
The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage...
Does Chastity Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
This question has been sent more than a few times, it seems to be a concern that many guys have when making the decision to add chastity to their...
Gender Balance
Gender and roles are incredibly interesting to me. In my blog titled "Real Men Don't Have Penises" we looked at the differences in gender and how similar both genders...
Relationships: A Stay at Home Dad’s Tale
Vikter is a reader and frequent forum contributor that has incorporated some of the principles that I promote in the blog such as male orgasm control and pegging. Additionally,...
Penis Size
A blog about sexuality and I don't think I've ever done a blog about penis size. I should be ashamed of myself. Oh well, time to make amends.
Desirability
I like...
Communication: The Number System
When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his...
Having Fun With It: Only Two Players
This is an ongoing story about my life with Kevin, our neighbor Andrew and the new and interesting dynamic that is coming from our new relationship. You can read...
Pegging Proficiently
The physical side of pegging is pretty simple, I spelled it out in this blog about pegging for beginners. Girl puts on strap-on harness, boy bends over, girl puts...
Real Women Don’t Have Penises
This may seem like very conventional logic but what happens when they do? If she has a penis, is she really a he? Is he really a she? I...