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Real Women Don’t Have Penises
This may seem like very conventional logic but what happens when they do? If she has a penis, is she really a he? Is he really a she? I...
Conditioned Masturbation
I received an email from a reader who asked about their husband's "masturbation" problem. An excerpt of her email is below:
He masturbates daily while I am at work, I...
Sexuality: Copulins or “Vagina Magic”
What the heck are copulins? I came across them when doing some research about pheromones. For some reason, the word copulins makes the think of little green men or...
Sexuality & Gender Differences: Is It Fair?
On this website I spend quite a bit of time discussing differences between women and men. Along the way, some have accused me of being a female supremacist. Do...
Relationships: Boyfriends for Married Women
This article was written by a guest contributor named MagicalMolly after seeing my ping pong blog. She said that she had a story to tell me that might help...
Relationships: Promiscuity & Monogamy
I've just been thinking and researching some things about human sexuality and felt the need to put some thoughts down. Both men and women are wired to be monogamous...
Orgasm Denial: What is a Ruined Orgasm?
I'd first like to thank Ruined-Julie for contributing this post. Full disclosure, Kevin and I tried the ruined orgasm and it didn't work well for us. Julie's writing certainly...
Tantra – Touch and Sex
In my previous blog about antisocial distancing, I talked about physical touch and separated it from sex. In this one I will do just the opposite. What about when...
Antisocial Distancing
Physical touch is very important to many of us and it seems that our society does our best to eliminate touch at every turn. Have you ever heard the...
Our Boyfriend
My last couple blogs have turned into erotic novels and while that isn't the typical content of the site, I really enjoyed reminiscing about the experience and writing it....
Ping Pong 2
In my previous blog, I talked about meeting Andrew and the game of table tennis that led to an exciting friendship. If you haven't read that blog, I highly...
Ping Pong
I've hesitated to post this too quickly but knew I would post it sooner or later since typing my thoughts tends to give me a sort of mental clarity....
Male Chastity: Why Does it Seem Like He Wants To Be Locked?
He probably does want to be locked! Once he grows accustomed to the feel of the cage and managing his releases, many men grow to feel more comfortable when...
Relationships: What Motivates Him?
Let's talk about motivation. A typical man's sexual energy is very closely linked to his desire to please you. That may seem odd but men in fact are hard...
Penis Fascination
I admit it. Penises fascinate me. I wouldn't say that most penises are incredibly attractive (sorry guys) but they are shaped to be very practical. Their sizes and shapes...
Tantric Trolls
For those of you who have been around a while, you know that I'm never one to be afraid of feeding the trolls. Something about the the site or...
Male Chastity: Which is better, plastic or metal?
I'll go against everything that I have ever been told and begin with the conclusion. The plastic or resin cage is lighter weight and typically will not set off...
Cell Mate Bluetooth Chastity Cage
Update 10/8/2020 - The BBC and Tech Crunch have published some issues that indicate safety and security concerns with this device. Buyers beware.
Admittedly I am a huge nerd. Kevin...
Male Chastity: Spiky Objects
Wait. What? Spikes?
You read that correctly. This is a post about cages with pokey bits on the inside. Why on earth would you want to add uncomfortable sharpness?...
Did you miss me?
I am back!
To be honest I never really went anywhere. I've just had life creep up on me and my little hobby website was something that I needed to...
Relationships: A Dom Perspective
DominusServae contacted me and we've been corresponding about his thoughts on the blog with relation to his own experience as a dominant male. It seems that much of what...
In Appreciation of Men
Kevin is running some errands this morning and I am just sitting here drinking my coffee and thinking. I just wanted to take a moment to write a blog...
Male Chastity Day 2020
It is like a combination of Mother's Day, Valentine's Day and Christmas all in one. Don't miss out on this wonderful opportunity to try something new to rekindle things...
Relationships: Sexualizing Insecurities
I'm writing the draft of this blog on a flight during that strange week between Christmas and New Year. Thankfully the flight is half full and I have the...