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The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource
The male orgasm is interesting when I compare it to my own. I can have seven or eight orgasms before I simply feel too exhausted (and sore) to go...
Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool
Within each of us there are two sides; the female side and the male side. A combination of different feminine and masculine parts to make you the person that...
You Are His Rock
The power of a strong, empowered, and committed woman knows no boundaries. While he is ultimately responsible for himself (she is not his fix or savior), she can be...
What Male Need Does Chastity Satisfy
We've exhaustively covered how amazing male chastity is for women. Spoiler; he will be a more caring and attentive lover. For many couples, this is sufficient motivation.
We were...
What is Slut Shaming and Why is She Such a Slut?
Wikipedia says that slut-shaming is the practice of criticizing women based upon the sexual expectations of others. I've gotten my share of raised eyebrows due to our living situation....
How Coronavirus Changed Our Marriage For The Better
This is a story about TanjaNest, a reader that recently joined the site. Like so many of us, Covid-19 forced some changes on her family. A huge thanks to...
An affair made me a better wife and mother
This blog entry isn't about me, it is paraphrased from a few different blogs that I've read. The content reflects things that I've heard from personal friends and from...
Oral Pleasures
Like most of you, I enjoy oral sex. I mean, I really enjoy oral sex. Not just receiving but also giving. There are so many nuances to oral sex...
Then There Were Three
I've hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let...
Sexual Contingent Self-Worth
People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If...
Moving In
For those of you that haven't been following the blog religiously for the last few months, I'll catch you up to speed on the recent developments in my life....
An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?
Can you imagine walking into a relationship counselor for couples counseling. Let me set the scene; a strip-mall office, some counseling degrees hanging on the wall, fake ficus trees,...
Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes
Due to the popularity of my post about pegging becoming more mainstream in movies and television, I decided to do a post about pegging comedy. Pegging in itself can...
Sexuality Has No Relation to Gender
He is gay so he likes penis. She is gay so she likes vagina. They are bi so they like both. Then you throw a throw in trans and...
Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful
The medical term for painful intercourse is dyspareunia (dis-puh-ROO-nee-uh), defined as persistent or recurrent genital pain that occurs just before, during or after intercourse. There can be many causes...
Pegging Goes Mainstream
As anal sex becomes more universally accepted and mainstream, pegging does too. Let's take a look at the appearances that pegging has made on the big screen.
I think...
Caitlin V: Sex Coach
One of our readers sent me information about a sex coach named Caitlin V. She is animated, fun, sex positive, easy to understand and her videos are excellent!
I've...
Pegging Frequency
We discuss pegging quite frequently on this site and it seems that most of you are strong advocates of the practice in your relationship. Some couples tried pegging a...
Locktober: Keys Are Sexy
Remember ladies, it is almost Locktober. Time to lock your boy up!
-Me
How does something as simple as a key become sexy? We use various keys to get into our...
Sacrifices in Female Led Partnerships
So he put his willy in a little metal thing for a few days. Big deal. At the beginning of our journey, I didn't really understand how big of...
What Does Chastity Have To Do With Gender?
Here's an email exchange with a reader over the last couple days:
Reader- We have a somewhat female led relationship and my husband wears a chastity cage regularly, we do...
Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?
In my relationship, male chastity is a godsend and I preach the benefits from the highest mountaintop. We use it as a tool to keep our relationship exciting, fun,...
The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage...
Does Chastity Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
This question has been sent more than a few times, it seems to be a concern that many guys have when making the decision to add chastity to their...