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The Locktober 2021 Challenge – Let’s fight testicular cancer together!
We are well into September and that means we need to start making preparations for Locktober festivities. For those new to the annual ritual, this is the month to...
Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?
This won't be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and...
Is your marriage symbiotic or parasitic?
The world around us is full of mutually beneficial symbiotic relationships! Think of the bee and the flower, barnacles on whales the list goes on and on. Now think...
Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!
There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men...
Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!
It is no secret that marriages are difficult. In fact; up to 63% of marriages end in divorce according to a recent statistic. That statistic was before the pandemic...
What can sperm competition bring to your marriage?
In and of itself, the human mating process is a very simple thing. Boy puts his thing inside girls thing until one or both of their bodies climax. Our...
Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?
Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely....
Quit feeling guilty about sex!
For women it seems like sex and guilt go hand in hand. If we sleep with him too soon, we feel guilty. If we sleep with too many guys,...
How big of a problem is his masturbation?
Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what's the big deal? The...
Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these
Paraphilia - The sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals.Objectophilia - Sexual or romantic attraction focused on particular inanimate objects.Mechaphilia/Mechanophilia - Interest/Attraction towards mechanic/technological objects.Agalmatophilia - Sexual...
Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!
This isn't going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man's penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with...
A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation
Male ejaculation is fascinating to me, almost as fascinating as my own orgasms. I've written about delayed ejaculation and ejaculation training but it might be time for another blog...
What the Heck are Reverse Pegging and Fauxing?
We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on...
Cleaning Up: Quit Being Squeamish About Creampies!
I wrote a blog a few years ago entitled to eat his own where I tasked Kev with tasting his own baby batter. I've tasted cum, his tastes as...
Why would I lock his penis in a cage?
My husband of twelve years just told me that he wants me to lock his penis in a metal cage. I didn't even know what to say! I searched...
Are men more prone to having sexual fetishes than women?
It is true that men report a greater desire or interest in sexual fetishes than women do. Men also report engaging in these types of behaviors more frequently as...
Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]
In the wake of a recent article about small penis humiliation and similarly themed works from the artist Mare I've thought about the body shaming and negative body image...
What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?
I've been trying to become more active on my twitter and I've come across yet another artist that I love and want to share with you. @burdle does some...
Male Chastity: Can Sexual Frustration Make You Die Sooner?
Well that is a spooky topic for a blog, right? I was trolling for sex articles on science's website because I am a pervy nerd and came across this...
Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective
We all know that negative reinforcement doesn't work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can...
Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon
In some relationships, the cage is used as a tool to coerce the man to proactively be something or act a certain way. In other relationships the cage can...
Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule
I've always been an early riser. I get up bright and early every morning while Kev is up late every night. Watching movies, playing video games, whatever he does....
Mother’s Day 2021: Your mom is awesome!
My mother was incredibly important to me, she formed who I am today and she helped shape a world view that not only told me that I am "enough"...
New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations
The stay at home spouse is an increasingly popular role as families adapt to the absence of in-person school. Many men and women are choosing to take a step...
Mare: Artist Profile
Mare or perhaps more accurately MᗩRƐ or MAR3 is an 23yr old male artist from Denmark that draws some incredibly sexy kink illustrations. From his patreon page, he says...